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Sunan Ibn Majah 2351 (Book 13, Hadith 44) — Parents, Family and Respect

Narrated by Abu Hurairah (رضي الله عنه) • Grade: Sahih (Al-Albani (Sahih); Muhammad Fouad Abd al-Baqi (Sahih); Shuaib Al Arnaut (Sahih); Zubair Ali Zai (Sahih))

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#280 • Sunan Ibn Majah 2351 (Book 13, Hadith 44)Sunan Ibn MajahParents, Family and Respect
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Primary Companion Narrator
Abu Hurairah (رضي الله عنه)

It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that

Book & Reference: The Chapters on Rulings (Book 13, Hadith 44)
Scholarly Grading Source: Al-Albani (Sahih); Muhammad Fouad Abd al-Baqi (Sahih); Shuaib Al Arnaut (Sahih); Zubair Ali Zai (Sahih)

حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عَمَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنْ زِيَادِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ هِلاَلِ بْنِ أَبِي مَيْمُونَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي مَيْمُونَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم خَيَّرَ غُلاَمًا بَيْنَ أَبِيهِ وَأُمِّهِ وَقَالَ ‏ "‏ يَا غُلاَمُ هَذِهِ أُمُّكَ وَهَذَا أَبُوكَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏

It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that :the Prophet (ﷺ) gave a child the choice between his father and his mother (i.e., which parent to live with). He said: “O boy, this is your mother and this is your father.”

— Nasiruddin al-Khattab (Darussalam Sunan Ibn Majah English Translation)

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IslamTools Editorial Study Notes (Distinct from Prophetic Text)Parents, Family and Respect

Main Lesson & Core Meaning

Dutifulness to parents is among the most beloved deeds to Allah right after prayer on time, and upholding family ties expands provision and blessings in life.

Practical Daily Application

Serve and speak gently to your parents, pray for them continually, and reach out to relatives even when ties feel strained.

Key Islamic Terms & Vocabulary

Birr al-Walidayn (بر الوالدين)

Devoted kindness, obedience in good, and lifelong service to one's parents.

Silat ar-Rahim (صلة الرحم)

Maintaining, honoring, and repairing bonds of kinship.

'Uquq (العقوق)

Disrespect or neglect toward parents, warned against as a major sin.

Scholarly Context & Jurisprudence Note

In both the Quran and Sunnah, the rights of parents are paired immediately with the worship of Allah, underscoring their unmatched sanctity in Islamic ethics.

Educational Note: This library is for Islamic study and education. Applying Hadith to complex personal legal matters (Fiqh) requires qualified scholarly guidance.

Noble Companion & Hadith Transmitterرضي الله عنه

أبو هريرة عبد الرحمن بن صخر الدوسي

Abu Hurairah (Abu Hurairah 'Abd ar-Rahman ibn Sakhr ad-Dawsi)

The foremost transmitter of Prophetic Hadith among the Companions. From the tribe of Daws in Yemen, he embraced Islam and migrated to Madinah in 7 AH (the year of Khaybar), dedicating his life in As-Suffah to accompanying the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and preserving his words.

Source Verification & Scholarly Audit Record

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Collection: Sunan Ibn Majah (Sunan Ibn Majah 2351 (Book 13, Hadith 44))
Scholarly Grading Source: Al-Albani (Sahih); Muhammad Fouad Abd al-Baqi (Sahih); Shuaib Al Arnaut (Sahih); Zubair Ali Zai (Sahih)
Al-Albani: SahihMuhammad Fouad Abd al-Baqi: SahihShuaib Al Arnaut: SahihZubair Ali Zai: Sahih
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It was narrated from 'Abdur-Rahman that:a man's father or mother - Shu'bah (one of the namators) was not sure - ordered him to divorce his wife, and he made a vow that he would free one hundred slaves if he did that. He came to Abu Darda' while he was praying the Duha, and he was making his prayer lengthy, and he prayed between Zuhr and 'Asr. Then he asked him and Abu Darda' said: "Fulfill your vow and honor your parents." Abu Ad-Darda' said: "I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say: '(Honoring) one's father may lead one to enter through the best of the gates of Paradise; so take care of your parents, (it is so, whether you take care of them) or not

— Nasiruddin al-Khattab (Darussalam Sunan Ibn Majah English Translation)

Scholarly Grading Source: Al-Albani (Sahih); Muhammad Fouad Abd al-Baqi (Sahih); Shuaib Al Arnaut (Sahih); Zubair Ali Zai (Isnaad Hasan)
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— Abu Khaliyl (Darussalam Jami' at-Tirmidhi English Translation)

Scholarly Grading Source: Ahmad Muhammad Shakir (Sahih); Al-Albani (Sahih); Bashar Awad Maarouf (Sahih); Zubair Ali Zai (Isnaad Hasan)
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Book & Reference: Chapters on Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives (Bk. 27, No. 6)

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— Abu Khaliyl (Darussalam Jami' at-Tirmidhi English Translation)

Scholarly Grading Source: Ahmad Muhammad Shakir (Sahih); Al-Albani (Sahih); Bashar Awad Maarouf (Sahih); Zubair Ali Zai (Sahih - Agreed Upon)
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